Life can be cruel at times. One moment youre on the top of the world, enjoying every bit happiness it has to offer and in a split second you are at your lowest of low. How come? Was it your fault or was it just because of an unavoidable circumstance? Or maybe it was just destined to happen. And once your there below, would you suck in all the hurt youre feeling? Would you cry yourself to sleep? Would you be the pathetic person than you are so that people can sympathize with you? Or would you just move on, pick up the pieces youve lost and continue living the life that would be of meaning only if you would not drown yourself with the past?
A lot of these situations come along our way. Each and everyone of us comes across a moment in our life when we wonder where did we go wrong. Admit it or not, most of the time, this happens when we are in love. And when weve lost that love, do we break our fall or do we let ourselves hit the ground hard. Do we move on or we do think about what had happened?
Wouldnt it be better if we could break free from the past, from what had happened, and go on with our lives and making the most out of what we have now instead of contemplating and indulging with pasts mistakes? As crazy as it may sound to some people but it is possible. There is life after a broken relationship. Really.
Its sad to see a person with so much to give and so much brain cells in their head, wasting their life with tears in their eyes or hurting themselves even more. Whats even worse to see is when people pretend to be stronger than what people think of them and pretending that everything is ok when in truth its not. Yes, some may say that I am contradicting myself. But one can still hurt without ever being so clingy to his or her past. I am not saying that we should not be affected by our emotions. All I am saying is that we have the will power to move on with our lives so why not use that power, right?
Sometimes it is healthy to look behind us and see our past and remember the things that has taught us so well. It is nice to remember and laugh about things or even cry about it at times. But to actually be destroyed and be pretentious just because what had happened to us hurt us so bad, isnt such a good thing. Not only does it cause sleepless nights and pimples and maybe even a threat to become an "every-night-I-open-up-to-my-friend-about-it" person, but it deteriorates your soul as well. What if because of too much contemplation you forget the other things that matter and destroy your future? What if unknowingly you have neglected yourself and the people that surround you because all you ever think of is the guy who left you? Whats even worse is what if youve become the person you were not before because revenge got into you and you so wanted to be glorified by people by looking strong and conveying to people how cruel and bad the person who left you is? If youre on that plane, Im telling you, jump off it before its too late. Youll never know how people look or will look at you after youve done this. Stop pretending and step up the ladder and show them the true strength you have.
Stop sounding oh so preachy about how this particular past has taught you a lot even in reality... it hasnt taught you a thing. Or maybe the things you couldve learned hasnt quite sunk in that brain of yours. Am I sounding too cruel? Well life is cruel. Love is cruel and we cant do anything about it. All we gotta do is accept what we have, cease every moment it offers and make the most out of our lives. So if youre one of those people I have just described... Cmon, you know better than go messing a life that "messed u up", you know better than not showing whats really inside you?! You know better than to run to your friends and fish out infos you wanna catch or even worse... use them as bait to catch that fish (cool symbolism huh?!). You know better than to waste your life away on a past that cannot be changed. Sweep away those broken pieces, stand up and give yourself a break, give yourself a chance :)
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